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CHAPTER 1: PROLOGUE --
outlines the author's motivation for writing this book...as a former
law enforcement officer, martial arts expert, and self-defense
trainer.
CHAPTER 2: ATTENTION
EMPLOYERS -- Outlines why employers should be motivated to
seek training for their employees regarding safety. Company
liability, effects on employees, bad press, etc.
CHAPTER 3: PERSONAL SAFETY CAN
BE FRIGHTENING -- takes a look at the many reasons we ignore the
issue of personal safety in our own businesses.
CHAPTER 4: "IT WON'T HAPPEN TO
ME" SYNDROME -- Includes why people deny their own risk,
has examples of real crimes and statistics.
CHAPTER 5: S.A.T. SELF
ASSESSMENT -- Assess your current knowledge about how you
should handle some possible situations. Discussion about
the answers is found at the end of the book where you are urged
to try the test again before checking your answers.
CHAPTER 6: JANE'S STORY
-- shares a real story of a home attack to illustrate some key
danger signals and an extreme result of ignoring your
instincts
CHAPTER 7: KNOWLEDGE IS YOUR
BEST WEAPON -- outlines some issues to consider including:
- what the predators rely on
- the effects of fear
- poor body language versus confident
body language
- how to develop a more confident stance
- your speech and what it says about you
CHAPTER 8: DENIAL IS YOUR
ENEMY -- Discusses the steps of denial and different forms
of denial such as rationalization, justification, minimization,
excuse making and refusal.
CHAPTER 9: WHAT DO PREDATORS
WANT? -- Knowing what the predators are looking for can
help you avaoid those things.
CHAPTER 10: WHAT ARE PREDATORS
RELYING ON? -- Ignorance, automatic fear responses, and
other behaviors that you might do that will help a
predator.
CHAPTER 11: UNDERSTANDING THE
EFFECTS OF FEAR -- This explains how your body could work
against you through automatic physical responses.
CHAPTER 12: OVERCOMING
FEAR: -- Several ways you can overcome and change those
automatic responses to work in your favor. As well as ways you
can use words to throw a predator off and stop an attack.
CHAPTER 13: DO YOU LOOK LIKE A
VICTIM?: -- Your body language is assessed to see if you
are likely to be selected. The body language to use and avoid
is discussed.
CHAPTER 14: TRUST YOUR
INSTINCTS -- describes the rules for staying safe in any
situation, including:
- The many forms of intuition
- Stranger or strangeness?
- Real
or imagined?
CHAPTER 15: AWARENESS IS
CRITICAL -- How your awareness level can effect your
safety.
- developing an awareness of your
surroundings
- some subtle clues and warning
signals to look for
CHAPTER 16: WARNING SIGNALS
-- outlines some common warning signals to be aware of when dealing
with a client, including:
- "out of context"
- "he was so nice"
- the power of "we"
- compelling statements
- "I promise"
- T.M.I.
- "no"
- body language and positioning issues
- Tone of voice
- fights in the household
- a few notes about warning signals
CHAPTER 17: FALSE INDICATORS
-- educates you about some signals that may seem to indicate danger,
but may be related to the clients' medical issues,
including:
- antisocial personality disorder
- ADHD
- bi-polar disorder
- schizophrenia
- Tourette's syndrome
- learning disorders
- cultural differences
- personal space and eye contact
discomfort
- physical contact
- women in business
- non-verbal signals
CHAPTER 18: WHAT IF'S
-- describes how to handle a variety of threatening situations,
including:
- client drunk or on drugs
- a controlling client
- inappropriately dressed client
- a first call that makes you
uncomfortable
- not comfortable with the client
location
- weapons or illegal items visible
- fights between a client and third
party
- clients that aren't taking their
medications
- a verbally abusive or threatening
client
- a 3rd person (visitor, friend of
client) who makes you uncomfortable
- uncontrolled pets
- excessive distractions
- no spouse present and possible
jealousy issues
- a medical emergency
- when you're called
to provide service to a third party
- client blocks the exit
- hazardous or appalling living
conditions
- you witness a crime
- a client shows you a weapon
CHAPTER 19: HOW TO GET OUT
-- takes a look at ways to leave the scene if you feel
uncomfortable, including:
- understanding that you don't
have to stay
- using your cell phone as a safety tool
- having a signal to indicate danger
- knowing the address so you can get
help
- Info for your lifeline
- the excuses and how to use them
CHAPTER 20: PLANS AND
PREPARATIONS -- outlines over 55 steps you can take
in advance to keep from ending up in a dangerous situation in the
first place, including these catagories:
- Safety in numbers
- Violent visitors
- Auto related safety
- Clothing
- Food and drinks
- Leaving your stuff
- General tips
CHAPTER 21: ABDUCTION
AVOIDANCE -- You might not think abduction is common for
adults, but you will be surprized. This explains how to avoid
and escape this dangerous scenario.
CHAPTER 22: ABOUT RAPE
-- Some insight into the mind of this type of criminal.
CHAPTER 23: WEAPONS...YES OR
NO? -- examines the issue of whether you should arm yourself for
client appointments and discusses the issues that arise if you
decide to have a self-defense tool with you:
- guns
- chemical or pepper spray
- stun guns and tazers
- self-defense training
CHAPTER 24: OTHER SITUATIONS
-- discusses some other situations that could threaten your safety,
including:
- fire
- medical emergencies
- unsafe or unsanitary living conditions
CHAPTER 25: INSURANCE --
looks at the issue of insuring yourself and your company against the
unexpected
CHAPTER 26: PLACES YOU CAN GET
MORE INFORMATION -- offers some additional resources for
educating yourself about safety issues
CHAPTER 27: AFTERMATH
SYMPTOMS -- examines the effects of traumatic shock and what to
do after an unavoidable incident
CHAPTER 28: MY WISH TO YOU
-- a final thought from the author
CHAPTER 29: NOTES ABOUT THE
S.A.T. ASSESSMENT -- Just in case the book didn't answer
your questions, this section covers how to properly handle the
situations in the initial test and why each answer is safe or
dangerous.
CHAPTER 30: RECOMMENDED BOOKS
AND VIDEOS -- a list of publications that can help you continue
your training in self-defense and safety
This
book is available by sending $19.95 (and your shipping
address) to:
Safe
Home Visits - Attn: Chris Puls
P.O. Box
158
Harrison, Ohio 45030
(Overseas orders add $3)
S&H
and tax is included in the above prices.
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